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Baby Garrett Email: Week 9

Thursday, May 6th, 2010

Hi everyone! Here’s the week 9 update.

This past week, I was privileged enough to be at the hospital when my
very dear friend Kat delivered her son, Jackson. She had a scheduled
C-section and delivered a very healthy 6lb 9oz boy. It was great to
see how the hospital took care of her, the process, and what she and
Jackson went through after the delivery. It’s amazing to think that
Erik and I will be welcoming our baby home ourselves in 31 weeks or
so.

This week, Ro-ro the Embryo will officially become Cletus the Fetus.
S/he is the size of a grape (about one inch long) and will be the size
of a prune (1.4 inches) by the end of the week. Ro-ro is looking much
more human and less like a gummy bear – s/he has hands that flex at
the wrist, elbows, and visible fingers and toes. All essential body
parts are accounted for, but thy will finish developing and
fine-tuning over the next few months. Eyes are fully formed, with
eyelids fused over them that will open around 27 weeks. The placenta
is almost fully formed, so soon that can take over hormone
production/regulation. This will (supposedly) help ease my nausea and
fatigue. In addition, tiny teeth are beginning to form under Ro-ro’s
gum line, but of course the teeth won’t be visible until well after
birth. Genitals are beginning to form, but it will be several weeks
before they will be visible enough on an ultrasound to determine the
sex.

As for me, I’ve had a few days of relief mixed in with feeling sick. I
had a few days last week where not only was I not nauseous, but my
appetite was back in spades. My nausea is now not pinned to any
particular time of day – I can get it any time, but almost always have
it in the morning (along with dizziness and a light-headed feeling).
One thing I have consistently been craving is milk – I drink a ton of
it everyday, either by itself, mixed with cereal, or mixed with some
Carnation Instant Breakfast (which soothes my stomach and helps ensure
that I m getting enough vitamins and minerals in me, in case I can
only have saltines for the rest of the day). Since bone formation has
already begun in Ro-ro, I’m glad that I am craving something which can
help! I am now unable to button any of my pants except for one pair of
jeans, which I can only wear to work on Fridays. I’m starting to show,
even though many women and sources said that it’s too early for me to
show if this is my first baby. However, I realized that when I had
surgery this past summer to remove an ovarian cyst, they had to fill
my abdomen up with gas and it stretched my stomach out to the point
where I easily looked 5-6 months pregnant. This previous stretching
could be why I am showing early.

Next week – we will officially begin discussing the adventures of
Cletus the Fetus! have a great week, everyone.

Baby Garrett Email: Week 8

Thursday, May 6th, 2010

Hi everyone! We have now reached 8 weeks, and Ro-ro is doing great.
yesterday was our first prenatal appointment and ultrasound – we got
to see one very healthy baby with a heart rate of 180 BPM. The doctor
was very pleased. We’ll send pictures from this ultrasound soon – you
can see Ro-ro, a yolk sac, little nubs for the arms and legs. The due
date is still at September 28th! Our next doctor visit is on March
15th – they’ll check my blood and urine levels, my weight, and do a
nuchal screening test – it’s a combined ultrasound and blood test to
help determine our probability for Down Syndrome. After that, the next
ultrasound won’t be until we it 18-20 weeks – but that ultrasound will
tell us if we’re having a boy or a girl!

This week, Ro-ro is the size of a raspberry and will be the size of a
grape by the end of this week. Fingers and toes are developing, as
well as eyelids and breathing tubes from the throat to the developing
branches of lungs. Ro-ro is also building nerve cells and neural
pathways, and is moving around (although it’s too early for me to feel
that yet).

As for me, I’m still in first-trimester symptom fun. Many of the foods
that were my favorite before pregnancy have not been too kind to me
now. For several weeks, I had to eat like I was in college – rice,
ramen noodles, cereal and the occasional peanut butter & jelly
sandwich were all I could tolerate (especially at night). I’m thankful
that I could eat a bit of NY-style pizza last night and had no issues.
My clothes are having trouble fitting, but it’s too early for me to
graduate to maternity clothes, so I’m making do with what I can.
Erik and I found some great ideas for the nursery, and I think he’s
pretty excited about working on it!

Baby Garrett Email: Week 7

Thursday, May 6th, 2010

Hi everyone,

I thought it might be nice to send a weekly email to everyone to keep
you up to date in what’s happening with Baby Garrett’s progress. Some
weeks may be more eventful than others, but we’re so excited to share
the pregnancy with our families!

Today, we are 7 weeks down, 33 to go. My estimated due date is
September 28th, but this may change a bit next week after the first
ultrasound. Baby Garrett, who Erik and I have nicknamed “Ro-ro the
Embryo”, is the size of a blueberry now and will be the size of a
raspberry by the end of the week. According to all of the baby
literature I can get my hands on, Ro-ro is developing all major organs
now – the heart is beating, the brain hemispheres are developing, the
liver is producing red blood cells, and the pancreas is producing
insulin. Hands and feet are developing, and Ro-ro sort of looks like a
gummy bear now.

Next Monday, we have the first ultrasound, which will confirm how old
Ro-ro is (and possibly change the due date), check for the heartbeat,
and generally make sure Ro-ro is doing ok. It will be a couple of
months before we can find out the sex of the baby, but we do plan on
finding that out prior to delivery. This Saturday, we are going to go
check out some furniture options for the nursery. For those that have
been to our house, we are turning our green guest bedroom into the
nursery.

As for me, pregnancy symptoms have been hitting me a bit harder this
week. Exhaustion, nausea, vomiting are all getting stronger. I also
seem to have developed a cold, and there’s really nothing I can take
for it. Thankfully, Erik has been taking wonderful care of me, and we
know that all of this is for a VERY good cause!

That’s all for this week – we hope you’re all doing well!

Love, Karen + Erik + Ro-ro

Crap-ton of posts coming your way

Thursday, May 6th, 2010

So, I’m pregnant. About 19 weeks and change. Every week for the past 3 months, I have sent a weekly email to family with updates. And Erik often asks me, why don’t you post them on the blog? Well, I’m gonna now. I’m posting the entire backlog (Weeks 7-19) up tonight, and will post the weekly ones right after I send them. Hope you enjoy!

Yah, I know.

Tuesday, November 17th, 2009

Update coming, hopefully tomorrow. Meanwhile, here are some scenes from the last few months.

Knitting

Knitting

Marion Crane and Norman Bates mother

Marion Crane and Norman Bates' mother

Entertaining

Entertaining

Naps with Stanley

Naps with Stanley

More naps with Stanley

More naps with Stanley

Fun

Fun

No good reason to have gone so long without posting. But we’ve been having fun.

Scenes from the House of Garrett, and the Office of FNUR

Thursday, September 24th, 2009

Erik – at his desk, with both his laptop and desktop monitor lighting his face. He is concentrating on a work project.
Karen – on the sofa behind the desk, typing her second blog post of the day and about to work on her knitting.
Stanley – lying underneath Erik’s work chair, having just tried to climb into his Daddy’s lap. That’s his new thing lately, to crawl up into Erik’s lap to cuddle. Well, “crawl” as much as an 86 lb. dog can.
Fred – not in the room, but somewhere upstairs. Waiting. Judging.

Still life at the Garrett House
It’s a lovely, quiet moment. Even if we are listening to this, CRANKED.

A pain in my side

Friday, August 14th, 2009

Erik, on Wednesday: “You’re not going to put this all over the internet, are you?”

Me: “Not EVERY detail.”

It started last Friday at work. Just sitting at my desk, moving through my projects when BAM! A sharp and sudden popped up in my front left side, just a couple of inches left of my belly button. Since I get random pains all the time, I did not think much of it until a couple of bathroom visits and deep breathing exercises had not even made a dent. My co-workers and boss told me I looked weak and pale, and a little internal voice was telling me SOMETHING IS WRONG. Not the voice that tells me I look good in dark lipstick even though I don’t, but the voice that comes from my gut.

The urgent care doctor said he was worried about a couple of possibilities, so he sent me to a radiologist for an ultrasound and a CT scan. Both showed… nothing. But I’m still in pain. I was sent home with a prescription for a painkiller and antibiotic, and instructions to get plenty of rest. The voice said SOMETHING IS STILL WRONG.

Over the weekend, the pain turned from sharp to a dull, general ache in my side. I had a slightly elevated temperature all weekend (never going above 100) and was a bit dizzy and lightheaded. But for some reason, I began to argue with the voice. “Stop being a hypochondriac. You probably just pulled a muscle and have a bit of a non-specific bug.” When my regular doctor called on Monday to check in after receiving the report from urgent care, she asked me to come in the next day just to be safe and get checked out.

Luckily, my doctor believes in listening to those voices. And because she is excellent at reading people, she knew there was something more to it when I was describing my symptoms and trying to act like they were no big deal.

Me: “Yeah, I’ve had a slight temperature since Friday. And I’ve been kind of light-headed. And the pain is still there. But it’s no big deal, right?”

Doctor: “I have a feeling you’re saying that it’s no big deal, but your body is telling you that it’s more. Let’s do some tests.”

MY DOCTOR IS A MIND READER. She is also a tri-athlete and a single mom and the best doctor ever.

My white blood cell count was higher than it was on Friday, and there was blood in my urine. The last test on Tuesday showed something that never even entered my mind as a possibility. “There’s something wrong with your left ovary. It’s swollen and it looks like there’s a mass in it.” My voice was SCREAMING. My doctor put me on another strong antibiotic in the event that it was an infected cyst, and told me to see her first thing on Wednesday morning for another blood test.

Wednesday morning, I actually did feel a little better. I figured that I’d drop in to my doctor, get a blood test that told me the antibiotics were working, and go to work. But I was still in pain. Because of that, my doctor referred me to a gynocologist who happened to be working at the ER that day. And she wanted me to see him IMMEDIATELY. “Just go to the ER and have him paged, and he’ll do another test. If he finds something wrong, he’ll be able to order any other tests there or even get you into the OR right away.”

The voice that tells me I look good in dark lipstick is telling me, “he’s not going to find anything wrong, and then you’re going to go to work and MAN will you be busy for the rest of the day trying to catch up. You should just go ahead and plan on working late tonight.” The other voice said, “Drive faster.”

I was put into a room in the ER pretty quickly, and the doctor comes in. He makes the decision pretty quickly that he’d rather just do a diagnostic laproscopic procedure instead of doing another test – and he wants to do it NOW. There’s obviously something bad going on in there, he said, and I don’t want to waste time on another test. And before I can even finish calling my husband to let him know, there are 5 or 6 people in the room prepping me for surgery. Two are taking my clothes off and telling me I need to take off any jewelry or contacts RIGHT NOW, and another is asking about insurance, and another is asking me when I last had anything to eat or drink, and one is asking me about my medical history, and everyone is talking at once, including my mom who is telling me to tell the nurse about that one time in 1993 that I had THAT illness, and then I look at her but HELLO someone is putting an IV in my arm but they seemed to have slipped because THERE’S A RIVER OF BLOOD RUNNING DOWN MY ARM AND WHY ARE THE SHEETS RED AND WET, OH THAT’S JUST MY BLOOD EVERYWHERE, and the nurse is asking me again when I last ate, and another nurse is making sure that I called my husband because the doctor said I need to be operated on as soon as an OR becomes available and I’ll want to see him before I go, and another nurse is taking my blood pressure and remarking that it’s a bit high, are you stressed right now? Because you need to calm down before we can operate on you. And that was all before 11 am.

The good news is, I did calm down. Erik did get in, and I was operated on 3 hours later. The doctor removed a cyst from my ovary that was twisting, one which he said was starting to affect the blood flow to my ovary so it’s very good it was removed right away, and PS it was benign so no cancer.  And the voice is just saying, “you should listen to me more often. I would never tell you to wear dark lipstick.”

Things I Am Doing That Erik Does Not Enjoy, While He Is Out Of Town

Wednesday, August 5th, 2009

Eating: jasmine rice, nutella, zucchini-garlic soup, risotto, nutella ice cream, fried chicken.

Watching: Shark Week, Real Housewives of Atlanta, crappy Lifetime movies

Doing: Knitting

Not Doing: Making the bed

Hopefully when Erik returns on Friday, I have not completely lost control.

What’s iPhone trying to tell me here?

Saturday, July 4th, 2009



What’s iPhone trying to tell me here?

Originally uploaded by erikdgarrett


Stanley is on the lookout for squirrels

Saturday, July 4th, 2009



Stanley is on the lookout for squirrels

Originally uploaded by erikdgarrett